Have you tried laser? Mine isn’t quite as much as yours but laser really helped me a lot. Also when I went on birth control it was a lot better. I know that isn’t a solution but I was happy about it.

Try to reduce your consumption of sugar, dairy, and gluten.

I really think laser is worth it. The only issue I have found with it is that some of my 'hormonal' hair still comes back, but much much less, much thinner, and a lot more manageable. It can be expensive, but I got mine as a groupon (I dont know what you'd have around you for a deal) and it was very reasonable, especially when you think that it helps eliminate the hair rather than other things like waxing, etc. and that it helps you feel a lot better. It sucks that we have to deal with it in the first place, but it is what it is I guess.

Laser didn't work for me, the hair came back. I did electrolysis on my lip, it was painful but it did work.

Laser helped most people I know with stubborn hair. Possibly expensive but worth it!